Topic of the day: Nigerian men and oral sex
Biko, what do you Nigerian men have against oral sex? A lot of Nigerian women are complaining that their men don't or hardly go down south and they wanted me to discuss it here and find out what the problem is. That place is not meant for your **** only, it's also meant for your tongues. Go down there and stay there for at least 30 mins, dammit! Yes, its that serious! Abi, ladies? Y'all are supposed to be keeping that part of a woman clean regularly...with your tongues...so why don't some of you? And some who attempt to don't even know what the heck they are doing. A woman knows the difference between a finger and a wet tongue..hello! Lol.
Dear men, there's so much the mouth, the tongue, the teeth and the throat can do (you can kiss, you can suck, you can bite and you can swallow *cough*), so why do you limit yourselves? What do y'all have against oral sex? Please if you're below 18, don't read this post and don't comment, this is strictly for adults. Men, oya over to you...answer!
Dear men, there's so much the mouth, the tongue, the teeth and the throat can do (you can kiss, you can suck, you can bite and you can swallow *cough*), so why do you limit yourselves? What do y'all have against oral sex? Please if you're below 18, don't read this post and don't comment, this is strictly for adults. Men, oya over to you...answer!
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Reaallzzz
Oma.
Anywys me I'm down there all day everyday...love it.Hehehe
If things don't change am out, as that was part of the package I thought I was getting when I agreed to marry him.
Nkem..
Take note also that about 85-90% of the commenters are going to be anonymous including me cos we live very prentious lives over here. We do worst things behind close doors and come out publicly to claim some moral righteousness.
Back to the main issue, as a guy, I fantasized alot about it and can always go down on my woman anytime as long as the garden is swept clean, no foul or offensive odour, or some stagnant putrefying liquids oozing out from there.
Since she can go down on me, why can't I? For me, I've gat no grudge or reservation about that.
Linda, from the way I relayed my response, you should be able to know whose it is cos for now, I choose to remain anonymous!
Thanks, we gat ur back!
Back in uni days loads of birds had vijayjay that funked up the place,be hygienic if you want 69 loving...plus I can make you squirt!
Warriboi
However, Its what i love doing and my baby enjoyed it alot. interestingly, it build trust between two lovers
Y'all tht aint getting are missing. demand tht ..u deserve pleasure too!
-M
Reeaallzzz
Abeg, we no de do. You don see d kain smell from some women toto? Why evils?
The issue is not all nigerian women liked to be sucked.
Mr Aristos + Mr fine boy + Mr bad-boy + Mr he Understands me + Mr my first love
So tell me why should it be(Mr Husband Material)to be the one licking the water or mess of these mentioned above Nigeria females sex mate categories in the name of love( Kai, lailai, tofiapa, never, Nibo, kolesele, i no go agree) lol
2. An Impotent man
3. Cannot suck my puss
4. have a SMALL dick
5. Cannot last long in bed.
We will not have continuing on the relationship. #moving on.
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Take as much time with the above,
as with our boxes.....
Ehhhhh. Exactly. No one wants to
dine on sourness
Eze(London)
honestly as a guy i believe in giving a woman oral sex....even rather than receiving.....it makes a woman happy...it also increases the love she will have for u....
i was never opportuned to have oral sex until i came to the states.....here in the states is a culture.....
one of the reasons why i am scared to come for a nija girl is because i am not sure how she will perceive oral sex.......
ral sex is really wonderful......i believe is the sweetest sex..........
if a man feels that her lady is not neat enough...they can both have a shower b4 the show....
A lot of people have high regard for you and your blog do not degrade your standards.
You should know that some issues are very personal and not a subject of discussion.
90% of Nigerian girls...even those people who you call Big Girls smell like shit...they are only concern about the outside Look...but inside is BULLSHIT...until they know how to take care of the HoneyPot ...no Man will get down with them.
Nigeria could have been a lot better today if most of the people were educated.
Yet, those who claim to be educated are constantly finding a way to misinform one another daily.
it is a shame, when a people decide to abandon EVERYTHING about their culture and constantly pursue every other culture whether good or bad.
you go to school to learn to be proud of who you are.
copy other culture if ONLY it improves yours.
most of us are no longer subsistence farmers. Therefore, our sisters/daughters can no longer be getting married without any clear career path. This will help to cut down on domestic violence.
Whatever opportunity you have, please educate rightly.
Secondly,Ladies, lets all learn n make it a point always to keep ourselves extremely CLEAN but most importantly the Vjay-jay!...Its a MUST o! Have a bath at LEAST twice day!!Wash that "princess" very very well!!Squat,open ur legs wide n do the washing very very well!!Insert one finger into the pussy hole,dig well n wash it wellllll!!Lol...For me,i do warm water first, then my final rinse with cold water. I learnt years back that washing the hole with cold water makes it more tight too,which is true! Lol...Just try it.It should feel squeaky clean after a GOOD wash!!If it feels somehow slimy, sorry honey it still aint clean!!Wash till u get that squeaky feel n tight,then ur good! As for me,that place is very very important to me o! Lol...Always shave neatly too n moisturize it nicely!
As much as some guys don't like going down n some are soooo damn clueless about it,Lol...Lets be real n honest too! Some girls/women are super filthy!!Kai!...The smell that oozes out from between their thighs when they just pass or even sit next to u is fucking ridiculous n a shame!!!Asin are u serious?!?Dayummmnnn! Lol...So how do expect any clean guy to go down on such?!?No bueno Mami!!Lol
Bottom line n on a very serious note,ladies lets make it a point to keep ourselves super super clean n especially our "princess" if u wanna enjoy some mind blowing oral sex!! Good Luck! :D
i sure love the MR ive got.
I made a rule for myself now. If you are not going down, you are not getting any. I'm dating this cuban guy now, olalalala, when he's down there, I literally start speaking spanish, he's so good. Muy bueno.
Women, make sure you keep it clean, shave(avoid bumpy ride by using nice razor and cream), wax, or trim it low. No Bush or smelling like fish water or feet. Don't torture the guy. Wash it very well especially before the act. I know some naija men like rush, rush, take it easy na, let the woman get ready.
Naija men, step up your game. You guys complain we are boring in bed, but you guys are boring too.
Anytime my tongue dey take style go there, she too go take style push my head comot.
Sotey, I come dey ask am "I wanna eat ur p** babe" and she'll reply "not today love". I give up.
Ironically, my previous gf used to beg me to and I wouldn't no matter how much she begged.
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Do i need to add that its necessary the babe must reciprocate?
empty noise. . .
- Loverboi
when we r at it(oral sex) i try to let her know that its all about pleasin her not me.the first time i told her i wanted to go down she freaked out,but i think we r cool now..i love her so much in and out of bed
You gotta tell him what you want and how you want it before you conclude that he is a selfish SOAB...
But its also true our men(WE) like playin in the safe zone... We really gotta get down there and water all the flowers to make 'em healthy...
Its really pleasurable when your woman is writhing in pleasure without the help of uncle stud yet...
I definitely love giving my wife orals....down there....
But she doesnt want it...and she doesnt do BJ either.....
And yes, thats frustrating
Men u all need 2 go d fuck down on ur women, cos if I can suck d hellout of ur dick 4 30mins str8, den I shud get same in return.
B....J....
i make sure she cums before i arrive...
I like giving cunnilingus. It creates a special, unique kind of highness.
But like any form of sex, you have to consider the lady's hygiene and the risks of STDs. I absolutely refused to go down on a pussy that smells bad, or that is unshaved. She must have a bath and prepare her pussy for royal treatment if she wants some head from me. And I also worry about getting herpes. That std is incurable and leaves that glaring mark in one's mouth.
Also, oral sex is more intimate, when the lady has a special bond with me. I won't just start giving oral sex to a lady I just met whose pussy I don't fully trust. And I don't demand/request for a blowjob like it's my birthright. If a lady insists on cunnilingus, I have a technique where I limit my tongue to just the clitoris, and use my fingers on the pussy to locate the g-spot.
Well,I don't even waste my time on a man who aint romantic.why not try Cameroonian men(grin)they r romanticccc as hell and know that"a woman is meant to be pleased"....
*escaping this site through d back door)hahaha
Baby go down and make junior pop...ohhh yeah ;p
I dunno why other dudes don't like it, but I'd do anything to satisfy the babe I'm with. Anything apart from stick something up my butt, sha...lol
If you're a dude, and you need advice, hit me up okay.... I just hope that Linda allows this post get seen.... 07032410256
im quite straight foward, il ask questions while we arr stilling getting to kmow one another and once i find out d guy isnt into it, omo, #OnToTheNextOne.
#yes i dont joke with my sexual fulfillment
Its really a wild experience.